The quote ” Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible ” is commonly attributed to the 14th Dalai Lama (Tenzin Gyatso).
It is a practical travel rule: a choice you can make anywhere.
It means patience and respect even when you’re tired, late, or stressed.
Greet people in the local language, ask instead of demand, bargain fairly, share outlets or seats, and leave shared spaces cleaner than you found them. If you can’t give money or time, give attention, an honest review, or pick up litter on the trail.
From a voluntourist perspective: kindness = humility.
Listen first, ask what’s truly needed, respect local decisions, avoid replacing paid jobs with free labour, and get consent before photos or storytelling. It’s the antidote to the “saviour complex” – centre the community, not your profile.
From an alternative traveller perspective (hitchhiking, couchsurfing, hospitality exchange): you live in a trust economy. Small gestures build safety and reputation (message if you’re running late, bring a small thank-you, help cook or fix something, and leave useful notes for the next guest).
“Leave it better than you found it” is kindness in action.
“Always possible” doesn’t mean being a doormat – clear, respectful boundaries are kind to you and others.
Even when money, energy, or words are scarce, tone, attention, and care still travel light and open doors.
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